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Some sexist beliefs, myths and traditions that need to be abandoned right away!

1.Girls have drama Everyone has heard about this silly stereotype: Girls are dramatic. It’s as old as friendship itself. Growing up I used to hear my fellow girl friends say that they would rather have boys as friends, as they are less gossipy and have less drama as well. With time, I began to believe this lie, at least until I was friends with  a … Continue reading Some sexist beliefs, myths and traditions that need to be abandoned right away!

The unhappy the relationship

This is how many people describe their lifeless/dispassionate relationships “but we are not unhappy, why should I end it”. When you are still dating him/her because you aren’t unhappy and you don’t want sabotage the relationship because of something you can’t quite put your finger on. Unhappy doesn’t equal happy, even though the former is the opposite of the later. It is such an irony, … Continue reading The unhappy the relationship

STOP STREET HARASSMENT

So we are walking on some busy pavement when some guy who is seemingly drunk starts harassing us subtly because we didn’t return his advances. The man even changes the direction he was walking towards and starts talking stridently and hurling insults towards us. Other passersby notice but they keep walking like it’s nothing.  The drunk finally tires and walks away. We were just walking … Continue reading STOP STREET HARASSMENT

School and Motherhood

Originally posted on Gatundu Girl:
A few days ago, Tanzanian President John Pombe Magufuli made a statement that raised controversy. He said that if girls or Primary and Secondary school level get pregnant, that should be the end of school for them. They should go to vocational training institutes and learn trades such as sewing instead of going back to school after delivery. According to… Continue reading School and Motherhood

15 of the best life quotes and secrets

There’s no life manual that we can follow when we are alive. But there are life tips and secrets which help us overcome everyday hurdles. I have put together my favorite quotes from different sources to inspire anyone in need of it. Lets face it, we all need a little motivation now and then.You can also read some of the best truths and inspiration i have … Continue reading 15 of the best life quotes and secrets

YOU ARE NOT GOING CRAZY: YOU ARE DATING A NARCISSIST!

Originally posted on Everything society:
Who is a narcissist? A person with a mental disorder  in which he/she  has an inflated sense of  their own importance, a deep need for admiration and a lack of empathy for others. But behind this mask of ultra-confidence lies a fragile self-esteem that’s vulnerable to the slightest criticism. In a much simpler way, the narcissists are obsessed with themselves,think… Continue reading YOU ARE NOT GOING CRAZY: YOU ARE DATING A NARCISSIST!

YOU ARE NOT GOING CRAZY: YOU ARE DATING A NARCISSIST!

Who is a narcissist? A person with a mental disorder  in which he/she  has an inflated sense of  their own importance, a deep need for admiration and a lack of empathy for others. But behind this mask of ultra-confidence lies a fragile self-esteem that’s vulnerable to the slightest criticism. In a much simpler way, the narcissists are obsessed with themselves,think they are better and more … Continue reading YOU ARE NOT GOING CRAZY: YOU ARE DATING A NARCISSIST!